"Tertian" means built with thirds: thus, extended tertian chords simply are those which go beyond 7th chords: 9th, 11th, and 13th chords. These sonorities generally are used as dominant chords: it's best to think of a "core" Mm7 chord with a "color note" (or several) added onto it. They're almost always used in root position, though inversions are possible. This handout includes information about the "legit," classical use of these chords. As you know, extended tertian chords are particularly prominent in jazz, the theory of which lies well beyond the scope of this handout.
Ninth Chords
Spacing: is usually fairly wide (open). The 9th is frequently found in the top voice (the melody) and is at least a 9th (sometimes a 16th) above the root.
Voicing: in SATB (four-voice) writing, generally omit the fifth of the chord.
Resolving: in the progression V9 - I, the 9th resolves down by step (just like the seventh).
Eleventh Chords
Spacing: is usually quite wide (open). The 11th is almost always found in the top voice (the melody) and is at least an 11th (sometimes an 18th) above the root.
Voicing: in SATB (four-voice) writing, omit the third and the ninth; unlike the 9th and 13th chords, the third is omitted here because it produces a dissonance with the 11th.
Resolving: in the progression V11 - I, the 11th is usually held as a common tone.
Thirteenth Chords
Voicing: in SATB (four-voice) writing, omit the fifth, the ninth, and the eleventh (in other words, use the "core" root, third, and seventh, and add the thirteenth).
Resolving: in the progression V13 - I, the 13th usually leaps down a third upon resolution. There sometimes will be a PT inserted in between.
A quick summary: usually dominant-functioning chords, usually root position, frequently wide spacing, usually write the "core" Mm7 (the root, 3rd, and 7th) and add the "color note" (9th, 11th, or 13th). 11th chords are an exception--use the root, 5th, 7th, and 11th. 9th usually resolves down by step, 11th usually a common tone, 13th usually resolves down a third (often a PT inserted). Labels: Roman numerals (e.g. Vb13), jazz/pop (e.g. C#11), specific quality (e.g. G MmMPM13).
Dominant sound ("core" Mm7 with a "color note" added):
Predominant sound, Tonic A progression including several of them: